Month: August 2008

  • Mommy Spots Cancer in Pen Pal's Child Over the Internet

    It seems that almost anything can be done over the Internet. Mothers Madeline Robb and Megan Santos have never met, but since their children were born on the same day, the two became pen pals sharing advice and photos of their tots over email. Madeline noticed a shadow on lil Rowan's eyes in the pictures suggested Megan to take her daughter to get it checked. Her advice likely saved the girl's life.


    (link to article & video below)


    http://www.lilsugar.com/1896440


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    When I read/watched this I was so amazed and at the same time so touched.  That these women were able to create a friendship via internet and one was actually able to save the life of her friend's child.  It got me thinking about how much my internet "pretend friends"* (as DH likes to refer them to) have been such an influence on my life.  Wheter it be during my wedding planning process when we all chipped in and helped one another with great advice, tutorials, recommendations, or shared an experience, but also on every day life events, no matter how mundane.  It can be as insignificant as a vent about a bad day at work or feeling under the weather.  "Pretend friends" or not you all have been friends to me :) Some of you I've have the pleasure of meeting in person while others I may have not.  But this article just made me want to acknowledge you all and give you all a "Thanks for being there for me" :)


     *"Pretend Friends" I hope no one is offended by this term.  I got into a discussion with DH once about my online friends and he said to me, "How can you say they are friends if you've never met?"  I think because he's not into social networking on the net as much as I am it's hard for him to think outside the box.  So it's kinda a silly term now that he uses when I talk about my online friends. :)


     

  • Under the Weather

    I've been blaming the Olympics for my crankiness, sleepiness, and not feeling too hot, but I think it's not the culprit.  I think I'm coming down with some sorta viral thing or a cold.  Boooo... I've been all congested and have a slight cough.  Today in the office I'm wearing like 3 layers of sweaters and a oversized cardigan.  Any more layers and I might as well bring a parka to work.  I hate being sick.  I can't wait to go home and bury myself underneath some blankets and have some hot chicken noodle soup.  Hrmm.. some mushroom & chicken rissoto doesn't sound too bad right about now either.

  • Olymp-rigged

    Okay, I've got to stop staying up every night watching the Olympics.  I'm not getting enough sleep and I come to work all cranky.   But to top it all off I get all worked up & angry when it comes to competitive sports. These past two nights watching the women's Olympics have got me all worked up and riled up.  How the HECK can you land on your knees and still deserve to get a medal?!!?!?    And OMG last night, Nastia Lukin vs. He Kexin on uneven bars.  That was some jacked up tie breaker!  Rigged I tell you!!~  I believe Nastia clearly had better execution of her performance than He Kexin.  And what's up with the gymnastics in the Olympics that they can only award 1 gold?!?!?!  Didn't they just award 2 medals for silver in the sprints?!?!  ArGhHHh!!~  I think Nastia deserved the gold.  Boooo...booo... boooo....


    And is it just me or do none of the chinese athletes look of qualifying age?  I mean they're hella good, but damn' I'm asian too and I look young for my age, but I don't think at 16 I've ever looked like I was 12.    I guess it gives you an advantage when you've got the body of a 12 year old and you're 4'10.


    Okay, enough of this it's out of my system now.  ArGggHhHh.... okay. Now it is. No more.


    Sooooo... did anyone catch the Gunshow last night at the Men's Gymnastics Rings final?  Woooo baby!


     

  • Shock In the Name of Love

    This moring while Husband was driving me to the train station to go to work we were talking about our upcoming 8 year anniversary together. Not 8 years of marriage as we only got married 2 years ago, but 8 years of being together. *le sigh* So here's how the conversation goes:

    Hubs: Our 8 year anniversary is coming up I can't believe it's been so long!
    Me: Yep. Almost a decade huh?
    Hubs: *gasps* I KNOW what I wanna get you for an anniversary gift!
    Me: Oh yeah? *giggles*
    Hubs: Since you have to walk from the train after dark some nights on your way home & I worry about you; I going to get you a taser!
    Me: ...
    Hubs: *big happy smile*
    Me: ...... Are you serious?
    Hubs: Yah!
    Me: Don't do that. I swear if you get me that for our anniversary, I'll frickin' tase YOU!!~
    Hubs: Why?!?! You would?? Well, Okay... I'd let you do it.
    Me: *mutters* psychopath...
    Hubs: I love you Pookie! *big smile*
    Me: I love you too dumbass *laughs*
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    Yes, I really think he was serious.

  • That's What Friends Are For

    ... in good times and bad times, I'll be on your side forever morreeeeeee ... okay, well not forever, but sometimes, kinda sorta.

    Ever since earlier this year (yeah, yeah, I know it's August 2008 already, but I mean since like, November 2007) I've been thinking about the friendships that I currently have, friendships that I have been in that are now for one reason or another have drifted away. I remember growing up I had two really close girlfriends of whom I thought we'd never stop being friends; but now it seems we've drifted. The direction they have taken in their lives are very different than mine. Not to say that they've taken a bad direction or anything because they haven't. But I guess we're at different stages in life than we once were. And although we do talk once in a long while. You know things will never be the same.

    Another friend and I had a misunderstanding which lead to our falling out sometime in highschool. (As a matter of fact I've forgotten why we stopped being friends) I've always thought about her and wondered how she was doing. But always felt like it'd be too awkward to call her. About 2 years ago I mustered up the confidence to call her on her Birthday to wish her a happy birthday. I figured, "Hey what can I lose?" The worst that could happen is having her pick up the phone & say, "Eff you Skank! I don't need no Birfday wish from you!!" (Okay, I knew she wasn't going to say that, but really what's the worse that could happen?) When I called she picked up the phone and I think she was surprised to hear from me. but I think it was a pleasant surprise. And although we didn't talk much in that 1st call I felt as though a weight has been lifted from my shoulders. I opened up the door. Much to my surprise two months later she called me on MY Birthday to wish me a happy birthday. I couldn't believe she remembered. Well, the rest is history from then on, I went to her wedding and was so happy to be a part of something so wonderful in her life, and sure enough she was there for mine. And although I don't see her as often we do talk every week. I'm sure we'll have plenty of more memories to make together to make up for lost time and then some more.

    My other friend has always been like a big sister to me. We grew up together since she lived upstairs from me when I was in 4th grade till about hrmm.. maybe 7th grade? She would always pull on my pigtails, tease me, berate me & make me cry; but of course I was the tattle that always got her in trouble. (If you're reading this I call it even okay?! LOL) I moved away afterwards went onto highschool & college and it seems our paths have never crossed since then. We reconnected about a year ago and we get along so well it's almost ridiculous. In one of our conversations we even said, "Why the hell didn't we find each other earlier?" And we even surprise our husbands too, whose reactions are like "Who's _____? You've never even spoken about her before. Since when were you friends with ______?" And of course our response was, "Since when didn't I know _____? I've known her forever."

    These are just 2 examples of the friendships I have/had. And if you are my friend and are reading this and my post wasn't about our friendship doesn't mean that I don't treasure our friendship. I don't think I have enough webspace to write about all of my friends. So whether you are currently my friend, have once been my friend; I sincerely do treasure having you in my life. Having good friends does make life worthwhile. I dedicate this song to all of you.

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    หนึ่งในไม่กี่คน - Beau Sunita

    ไม่กี่คนที่จะเคียงข้างกัน ไม่กี่คนที่จะคอยร่วมทุกข์ใจ
    และไม่ทิ้งฉันไว้ลำพัง ไม่ว่าเจอเรื่องร้ายใด ๆ ก็พร้อมเดินไปกับฉัน
    ไม่กี่คนที่จะรักฉันจริง ทำให้ยิ้มในชั่วโมงที่เหงาใจ...
    ในชีวิตที่ล่วงเลยมา ไม่กี่คนที่ฉันไว้ใจ
    ให้กุมมือ อยากฝากชีวิต

    * และหนึ่งในนั้น...ก็คือเธอคนดี
    ที่ฉันนั้นโชคดี ที่เราได้พบกัน
    จากหนึ่งในร้อย... หนึ่งจากในล้าน
    ได้มาร่วมทางเดิน ให้หนึ่งใจฉันได้เจอกับรักดีๆ

    ไม่กี่คนที่จะคอยหวังดี มีแค่เพียงไม่กี่คนให้เชื่อใจ
    ในชีวิตที่ล่วงเลยมา ไม่กี่คนที่ฉันให้ใจ
    แค่บางคนที่อยากบอกรัก
    (ซ้ำ *)
    (ซ้ำ *)
    อยากบอกว่าฉัน...รักเธออีกครั้ง...คนดี...

    Listen to the song here

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  • Johnny Cash Where Are You?

     

    Pennsylvania Station, New York serves approximately 600,000 people each day, me being one of them. Every morning & evening through the hustle & bustle of rush hour I'm one of the those crazy people running by, weaving through the crowds rushing to my train. Despite all the craziness of Penn Station, it is one of my favorite stations in NY because of all the awesome performers there that perform daily. I wonder, do you need to go talk to someone to secure a time slot to perform there? Or do you just kinda set up shop? Out of all the performers there my favorite by far is the guy that plays the guitar & sings Johnny Cash songs. He does a really great job singing/playing the songs. When he's there performing I actually stop & listen. But I don't think I've seen him around for months. Johnny Cash where have you gone? I need my dose of "Ring of Fire" when hustling through Penn Station. Does anyone know this person's name? I wasn't even able to find a you tube video of him singing. But I did find the creepy old man & his muppets.
    Am I the only one that thinks this guy is creepy?
  • If you came to my house.







    If you came to my house!


    Inspired by , MissSweeting

    You would see:
    Dog toys, everywhere. I swear I keep putting them back in the toybox, but the monkees insist that they be scattered around the house everywhere.  As soon as I put things away they take them right back out.  Please watch your step and don't trip! 

    We'd probably feed you:
    Thai Green Curry with white rice and some Wintermelon soup. (yummy my favorites!)


    And offer you this to drink:
    Water, Hot Tea (your choice of jasmine, oolong, green), lemonade.

    We'd undoubtedly ask if you'd like to read:
    Any of our Domino, PC Gaming, Playstation, MotorTrend magazines.


    We'd want to play this music for you:
    Depends, we have a plethora of music at hand, ranging from asian music, rock, heavy metal, rap, or oldies.  But most likely you'll walk into some Bon Jovi, Matchbox 20 or Aerosmith on.


    We'd want to tell you the latest about:
    Our dogs, dogs in general, home decorating, video games, medical procedures, and oh yes, our dogs.

    We'd probably suggest a game of:
    Rockband, Guitar Hero, Karaoke Revolution, Dance Dance Revolution, Rayman, or we could also set up the computers for a LAN party to play Rise of Nations or Star Craft (I'm sooooooooooooooo excited about the new one coming out!).  But if you're  not into video games, we can play a mean game of Monopoly or Scrabble! :D

    We would definitely show off:
    Our dogs, and all the tricks they do.  Unless they're already all over you making you do tricks for them; cos they're manipulative like that. (the little poop monkees) Our wedding pictures and my wedding bouquet which is now a painting! (I'll post a picture later!)


    We might get on the computer and show you:
    Our latest game, some more pictures, videos of our monkees, some funny clip on Youtube.


    If it was a long enough visit, we might watch:
    Some anime, or one of the 300+ movies we have in our collection. It's insane really, I don't think I've even watched all of them.  Or we can just watch the monkees do tricks.  They can keep it up all day. 



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    What would a visit to your house be like?

  • After Wedding Photoshoot

    On a slightly chilly October day, I woke up early, took my gown out of the closet, and slipped it on.  I was a bit upset that the dress actually fit LOOSER than it did on my wedding day!  Arggh!  What gives!  Anyhooo, DH and I went into Manhattan to meet with our friends Katya & Arthur of Story Motion Studios.  They also did my fantabulous Atlantic City shots. :)    After a long day of romping around the city my my gown I'm sooo happy that I got some great shots!  Here's a small sample! :)


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    More to come :)